Mumbai

When Cities Blur: Mumbai’s Identity Beyond the Skyline

Some cities wear their identities like a badge—loud, proud, unmistakable. Others, like Mumbai, let their identity shift, stretch, and sometimes, slip under a cloud. Quite literally.

The monsoon clouds roll in, heavy and unrelenting, swallowing the skyline, softening the sharp edges of glass and steel. The city remains, but its form blurs. For a moment, Mumbai is just a mood—grey, unpredictable, alive in its own way.

But beyond the clouds, beyond the physical skyline, lies the real Mumbai. The one that isn’t just its landmarks or its traffic-clogged veins, but its pulse—its people, its stories, its sheer resilience. The city rebuilds, reinvents, recovers—sometimes from floods, sometimes from its own exhaustion.

The Bandra-Worli Sea Link, a symbol of ambition cutting through the Arabian Sea, often vanishes into the mist. And yet, the traffic still flows, the bridges still hold. That’s Mumbai for you—moving forward even when the road ahead is unclear.

Maybe cities, like people, need their cloudy moments. To pause. To let go of rigid definitions. To rediscover what lies beneath the obvious.

Because identity isn’t just about what is seen. It’s also about what endures.

The Sea, The Mosque, and Lessons in Resilience

The Haji Ali Dargah in Mumbai, seen here as the waters recede. Soon, the restless sea will return—its waves crashing, its energy relentless. And yet, the mosque will remain, untouched in its resplendent silence and peace.

There’s a lesson in this.

To be humble in moments of glory.
To be calm when times are tough.
To ride the waves when they threaten.
To give in when no other choice remains.

Like the sea, life will ebb and surge. And like the Dargah, we find strength in stillness.

Why Strong Partnerships Matter: The Power of Trust

You need partners.

The kind who watch out while you’re at the wheel. The ones who steady the course while you set direction.

Partners you don’t have to check on, because you just know—they’re there.

The ones who see the wrinkles you tried to hide. Not because they were looking for flaws, but because they know you too well.

In partnerships, moments come alive. Love blossoms. Possibilities emerge. New realities take shape.

And at the heart of it all? Trust.

Have you experienced it?

Reflections can be pointed. The lake held a piece of wood that was enough of a perch for a bird!
We all have faces. This poem by Derek Walcott moves me beyond its words.

The time will come 
when, with elation 
you will greet yourself arriving 
at your own door, in your own mirror 
and each will smile at the other’s welcome,
and say, sit here. Eat. 
You will love again the stranger who was your self. 
Give wine. Give bread. Give back your heart 
to itself, to the stranger who has loved you
all your life, whom you ignored 
for another, who knows you by heart. 
Take down the love letters from the bookshelf,
the photographs, the desperate notes, 
peel your own image from the mirror. 
Sit. Feast on your life.

After much is said and more is done, you hear an anecdote from the past. Fresh and sprightly.

That’s when it strikes you that even much is said and done, more remains unsaid. Tiny moments wrapped in raw emotion that will tower memory stacks. Ready to light up a dull day.

Even after people are gone, they stay. It is a story of how they loved and lived.

(at Powai)

The lake holds the shadows of buildings that seem to be in a perpetual ‘grow tall’ mode. The middle of the lake is serene. Its peaceful. Cars ply with haste and pomp a few hundred metres away. But from the water, they seem further.

The waters are bluer than I thought they would be. Stiller than I thought they would be. Far more welcoming than I thought they would be.

Often, what seems is not what is. And what it seems is not any close to the truth. Surfaces can lie.

(at Powai Lake)

Quick, what do you see?

Some buildings become more than mere buildings. They are conceived in a way for a reason. Designed so. Built and marketed so.

Then they change. They shift in the mind. Based on memories and and emotions over time.

This is the Discovery Of India building at Nehru Centre at Worli, Mumbai. Built in memory of Jawaharlal Nehru and houses a variety of spaces, curating good stuff.

I was taken by the interweaving of concrete that I saw for the first time. Or rather, became present to when viewing it from a different angle with different company.

What do I see?

I see the connectedness of the world. We are all in it together. We might have different windows for viewing the world from, but that’s not the world! It’s just one view of the world.

Over to you. What do you see?

(at Nehru Centre, Jade Garden)