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The trouble with grand moments in life is that they come unannounced. Just like that. Suddenly. Many a time you don’t even realise how grand a moment is until its passed.

That is perhaps one more reason why we ought to treat each moment as a precious moment. Each interaction as important and every minute with joyous energy.

While the most immediate arc is what is visible, every arc must be passed to cross the bridge. Viewed together, it’s a pretty picture.

Live it grand!

(at San Francisco Bay Bridge)

It’s early in the morning. The Sun is unleashing a fresh crimson on an early sky which still seems besotted with the night gone by.

The Sun is there. Persistent yet silent. The only loud statement coming from it action : a constant rising.

People warm up to the Sun. But before people do, the birds set off a note of welcome. Loud. Joyful. Synchronous in their randomness. And as they announce their presence the giant temple gopuram of several centuries seems to nod and smile.

A new day is here. The Sun is out. It’s time to flap your wings and fly.

Fly.

(at Meenakshi Amman Temple)

“What do you see?”, I ask him. “Well a lot of things. Actually a lot of lovely women”. Staring at light bring on its magic on an arrangement of wood panels.

I am taken by his candour. I didn’t expect it. We sit there in silence. I dont what is more magical. Is it the light or is it the shadow?

Between light and shadow, every life goes on.

Whatsay?

“You just have to part the curtains”, she says.

We are at a resort by the sea. Tall trees and dense vegetation keep us from seeing it but the sound of the waves reminds us if its presence.

The night went by in a quick ruffle. A bit of a bonfire taking with it some time and leaving us with a richness of time well spent.

And now it’s morning. Am still in bed but I can hear people speaking. She shouts for me. Excitedly. “ There’s a new bloom”, she says. In slumber laced baritone I ask, “where”. “ You just have to part the curtains ”, she says. I do as told and wonder which is more profound.

The fresh bloom against the morning dew or her invitation to ‘just part the curtains’

What is to be ‘free’? It’s a question that’s been on my mind. For freedom is not about fences. Or walls.

The best of impregnable forts and prisons have never been able to contain an idea whose time has arrived.
If freedom is not about boundaries, walls or chains then what is it really?

Nelson Mandela, a man who spent 26 years in prison said so eloquently : “

”… to be free is not merely to cast off one’s chains, but to live in a way that respects and enhances the freedom of others"

The walls that are there in our minds are far stronger than we can imagine. They start out as silly fences and before you know it, become deep walls.

I know a few in my mind that I can do without. What walls in your mind need a knocking down?

“Be like water”, he tells me. “Find your space. You may be contained by your present container. But remember you aren’t the container”

I am awestruck by what a simple man sitting under a giant oak tree in the courtyards of a simple temple is telling me. I look at him with wonder. “You see water finds its place. Hold yourself lightly and keep going. There is a joy in the flow.” He is old and the wrinkles bear testimony to the many seasons his skin has been in the game.

A silence fills the moment as he stares into the sky and I stare into his lost eyes. “You will know what it like when you stand by the stream or watch a waterfall. You can hear it’s energy”

He breaks free from his trance. And proceeds rather dourly. “You didn’t expect this from a wrinkled old odd smelling fellow like me, did you?” He doesn’t wait for an answer. And then says, “many years ago I was like you. Riveted by drive and laced with passion’

His pauses for the longest period of time. Unable to bear it any longer, I ask, “and then?” He smiles, dusts himself up as he prepares to leave and says “I began to flow”

He walks away leaving me in the company of a silence broken by the sounds of his receding footsteps on dried leaves.

(at Yosemite National Park)

It takes a whole lot more to ask, than what seems apparent. A whole lot more!

To swallow pride to be able to ask for something to eat, is a thought thats difficult for me to digest. But that is the grim reality of several lives.

We wilfully turn our eyes off. Then we automatically go blind with our eyes open. Then the brain goes numb that we stop feeling in the quest of something more important. Finally, we stop caring.

Maybe we should pause and ponder what all we miss seeing with eyes wide open. Maybe thats something we should go around asking for.

Light can be beautiful. It allows you to see. It brings inanimate objects to life. It helps you see. Every person who has been in the dark can tell you a powerful personal story of how beautiful light is.

Relish it all.

And even as you do, pause to remember that light can be blinding as well. It can create silhouettes of humans, obscure the finalise and make you sure of ‘reality’.

Ask yourself how bright is the light you revel in? What do you not see because of it? What shadows does it throw up? Is that shadow a tad too dark?

(at Aurangabad, Maharashtra)

Its with a methodical ease that the old man spins the wheel. He is saying something that his faint breathing masks.

The Prayer wheel is exquisite to look at. To touch and spin around. The prayer wheel and the spinning of it reminds me of our lives. And how constant it has been through ages.
The prayer wheel and the old man’s chant seems to beseech me to slow down. They seem to ask me why I am in a hurry.
When was the last time you felt the need to slow down and soak in beauty around you?

If you havent felt so in a long while, perhaps you will soon. How about now?

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“This is the place where the legendary Bhim hit the mountain with his mace”, our guide tells us. We are at Harihareshwar. He is talking of Bhim, of the Pandava fame, as though he lives in the same building as him. And as he hurries us past what seems to be a perfect ‘V’ in the mountain, he adds, “this was the mountain’s weakest point”. It is picturesque, greeting me with a fresh gust from the Arabian Sea.

I conceal a half smile and nod in seriousness.

Coming to think of it, the weakest link breaking an otherwise strong chain is the stuff our cultures, our books on war, management and all else carry. It is almost a predictable curse that follows as through the ages.

As a new week arrives, do take a moment to pause and ponder. As you build the big mountain of dreams, what is your weak link?

I pondered for a bit and then went to my to do list! Tell me, what did you do? 🙂 (at Harihareshwar)